Kind words and forgiving of faults are better than Charity

قَوْلٌ مَّعْرُوفٌ وَمَغْفِرَةٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن صَدَقَةٍ يَتْبَعُهَا أَذًى وَاللَّهُ غَنِيٌّ حَلِيم

Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And Allah is Free of need and Forbearing. 2:263